Post 20: 23 lessons & loves from 2023

January 1, 2024

Happy new year (:

  1. unforgiveness hurts you, not them—you can forgive and not seek reconciliation

  2. finding a genuine compassion for those who hurt you is extremely freeing

  3. I tried Stella Artois for the first time, it’s fantastic

  4. I rode in (and leapt from) a helicopter for the first time, it was incredible

  5. I started running again, and was reminded how much I love it

  6. it is okay to simply walk away—literally, you can leave (most, if not all) a situation at any given moment. Irish goodbye that shit to the MAX

  7. stress absolutely destroys your body

  8. it is not your job to fix someone; you are not “giving up”

  9. people who want to be there for you, will be there for you; the people who are meant to be in your life, will be

  10. I have the absolute best support system (I could cry thinking of them)

  11. there is true evil in the world (which I knew, but was reminded of tenfold)

  12. it is necessary to be vulnerable, while also guarding your heart

  13. it is critical to know The Word; to be able to decipher between Truth and deception

  14. trust your gut—I believe if you’ve invited Jesus into your life, your “gut” is the Spirit

  15. you can do it anxious

  16. it’s not selfish to stick up for yourself, love yourself, or place precedence on your needs

  17. there are bad and manipulative people in the world, trust God with your identity

  18. never give someone the power to make you feel worthless…or worthy—let God define you…and realize that God defines others—God loves us all

  19. the Book of Revelation wasn’t written for us to shelter in fear, but to build bigger tables and invite as many people to sit with us as possible

  20. growing pains will happen for the rest of your life

  21. there can be so much beauty in the ending—ask God to help you see it

  22. stop falling for the potential in a partner—open your eyes to the now

  23. Jesus is all you will ever need

whyiscchappy? everything I have learned and will come to learn.

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